Silence is destructive.
Scientists are doing a great task increasing awareness about harmful things couples say and do in a relationship. For instance, we now understand through the ongoing work of Dr. John Gottman there are four interaction habits which predict whether a few will remain together or separation: criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling.
We understand high conflict partners take a trip that is one-way divorce when they donвЂ™t learn to better communicate, take obligation, and work at shifting their adversarial paradigm to an even more collaborative one. Continue reading In Relationships, not Means that is arguing YouвЂ™re Interacting